
Our guest today is Rachel Lindsay, the first Black Bachelorette and author of Miss Me with That: Hot Takes, Tidbits, and a Few Hard Truths. Rachel is also co-host of the podcast Higher Learning and a corespondent on Extra. We talk today about her experiences in Bachelor Nation, working with a ghost writer, and when she knew she was ready to write this book.
The Stacks Book Club selection for February is I Live a Life Like Yours by Jan Grue, we will discuss the book on February 23rd with Tessa Miller.
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Everything we talk about on today’s episode can be found below in the show notes. You can also find everything we talked about on Amazon.

- Miss Me with That by Rachel Lindsay
- The Bachelorette Season 13 (ABC)
- Higher Learning with Van Lathan and Rachel Lindsay (The Ringer)
- The Bachelor (ABC)
- “Attorney Rachel Lindsay pens personal essay on meaning behind nationwide protests” (Rachel Lindsay, Good Morning America)
- Honestly, Rach
- “Rachel Lindsay Has Some Thoughts on Hannah Brown’s Apology for Using the N-Word” (Abby Gardner, Glamour)
- “Lil Nas X and a Higher Learning Family Meeting” (Higher Learning, The Ringer)
- Becca Kufrin
- “Rachel Lindsay Is a ‘Little Pissed Off’ About Becca Kufrin’s Happy Ending on ‘The Bachelorette’” (Rachel Lindsay, Us Magazine)
- “Becca Kufrin Breakup: Ex Garrett Yrigoyen Has Been in Hot Water Before” (Kelly Wynne, Newsweek)
- “Becca Kufrin and Thomas Jacobs’ Relationship Timeline: From ‘Bachelor in Paradise’ and Beyond” (Johnni Macke, Us Magazine)
- “Ep. 175 Chatty Books with Juliet Litman” (The Stacks)
- Bachelor Party (The Ringer)
- Michelle Young
- Matt James
- Tayshia Adams
- Clayton Echard
- Arie Luyendyk
- Tyler Cameron
- “Rachel Lindsay on Getting Death Threats Following Interview with Former Bachelor Host Chris Harrison” (Aili Nahas and Dory Jackson, People)
- Chris Harrison
- “Chris Harrison & Rachel Lindsay Talk ‘Bachelor’ Contestant Rachael Kirkconnell” (ExtraTV)
- “Rachel Lindsay Sounds Off on Chris Harrison’s ‘Extra’ Interview” (Higher Learning, The Ringer)
- Ron DeSantis
- Sofia Quintero
- Van Lathan
- Bill Simmons
- The Ringer
- Can I Steal You for a Second (Hulu)
- Ben Higgins
- Lauren Zima
- Nick Viall
- TMZ
- Becoming by Michelle Obama
- Caste by Isabel Wilkerson
- The 1619 Project by Nikole Hannah-Jones and The New York Times
- How Do I Un-Remember This? by Danny Pellegrino
- Everything Iconic with Danny Pellegrino (Danny Pellegrino)
- Martin Luther King Jr.
- Michelle Obama
- Lucille Ball
- Being the Ricardos (Aaron Sorkin, 2021)
- I Love Lucy (CBS)
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